About Us
I’m Patti Hoying and I created this little corner of the Internet to help women restore their sense of joy and accomplishment faster after divorce and life disruption, helping them step into an even better next chapter of their best life by design.
Our programs, including Move On Move Up and the Divorce Operating System (Divorce OS), are designed to help accomplished women quickly restore balance after divorce, loss and breakup, so they can rebound faster and build an even more amazing life. Our process supports them to protect what they've earned, get clear on their purpose, and make their soul smile… without wasting time years in therapy or investing in tactics that just don't work.
Who We Work With...
Divorce is hard. It is our mission to guide powerful women on how to best navigate the disruption with clarity, grace and confidence, creating a deeply satisfying life for themselves while minimizing the potential for "collateral damage" to their earning potential, lifestyle and families.
Our exclusive Move On Move Up and Divorce OS programs provide clients with the methods, mindset and mentorship to up-level their soul, helping them perform at – and become – their very best as they enter this next phase of their life journey. We specialize in a no-nonsense, step-by-step process to help get crystal clear on who you (really) are, what you want, and how to get there, taking an "operating system" approach.
Please be aware that we are intentionally selective in who we work with. Most are high-achieving professionals, business owners or entrepreneurs. Many are ambitious, non-working women who sacrificed their career and dreams to support their husband's success and now find themselves feeling a bit behind.
All are amazing human beings, committed to doing the work and getting the outcomes to rebuild beautifully.
Note that we only work with people who are ready, who have a strong desire to finally get a grip on their situation and invest in their personal growth… who are willing to take personal responsibility for their success and circumstances… who are willing to show up and do the work with consistency… who are ready use this next chapter as an opportunity to build something extraordinary.
Does that sound like you? If so, let's have a conversation
About Patti Hoying
Master life strategist and divorce recovery coach Patti Hoying is founder of Patti Hoying Coaching and the creator of the Divorce Operating System. DivorceOS is a process-based methodology that helps women rebound 10X faster after divorce.
Patti’s unique background and achievements position her to support accomplished women at the highest level as they rebuild after divorce and life disruption.
Her career includes years as a national industry magazine editor, award-winning entrepreneur and business owner, and vice president of a $100M global SaaS company. Since 2018, she has helped thousands of people as a life strategist, divorce recovery coach, author, speaker, Ramsey Master Financial Coach, and business growth consultant. She holds a B.A. from The Ohio State University and has earned Master’s level credentials in multiple coaching methodologies. SHe also has been personally trained and mentored by names you might know.
When Patti’s own 22-year marriage ended, she didn’t have time for a divorce. She was already busy with a demanding career, a handful of coaching clients, kids in school, aging parents, and teaching a weekly class at church. What she needed was a fast, efficient way to heal faster and prepare for life after divorce while minimizing damage to her career, reputation or her loved ones. Finding nothing for high performers like herself, Patti created her own.
Since then, this same system helps ambitious women who are navigating breakup, loss and mid-life awakening. Her process-driven methodology helps clients minimize “collateral damage,” protect what they've earned, reconnect with their purpose, and build fulfilling lives by design – often achieving in a few weeks what traditional approaches can take years to accomplish.
Meet the team!
Coach Patti Hoying is supported by a team of fantastic people who are committed to providing a remarkable experience every time.
Patti Hoying
Master Life Strategist
Ramsey Master Financial Coach
OG Divorce Recovery Coach
Lori Paul, J.D.
Program Grad and Health Coach
Casey Shaulis
Creative Director
Sam Renner, J.D.
Platform and Client Support
TESTIMONIALS
CLIENT SUCCESS SPOTLIGHT
"Helped... to keep me as my best self."
"Although I did not get a divorce, your program helped me stay sane during a very devastating and stressful time of my life. You gave me advice to keep me as my best self. When my husband and I reconciled, I was able to implement your advice to continue growing as the professional woman I've always aspired to be.
Thank you, Patti! "
- Britni B.
University Development Leader and Creative Strategist
"On a scale of 1-10,
I'd rate it a 12!"
"I had gone through a divorce and was feeling anxious and stuck. After the initial call, I felt relief and a sense of peace because. Patti made me feel heard, respected, that I had someone in this journey with me. On a scale of 1-10 (10 being the highest), I’d rate it a 12! Worth every penny and minute spent! Invest in your healing and growth. Your future self will thank you!"
- Lori P.
Sr. Associate General Counsel for a major hospital system
"She made it easy for me..."
"I was just separated from my husband and was trying to save my brand. I took to Patti immediately. Signed up the same day. Patti helped me more than she will ever know and I truly appreciated it. She made it easy for me, even during a horrible time in my life. If you're thinking about it. you will not be disappointed. A great investment in your brand and in yourself.
- Nikki M.
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"My life changed forever..."
"Working with Patti has changed my life and my relationships. I’m forever grateful."
- Terry
"Life is back on track..."
"After working with Patti, I feel like my life is finally on track. What I thought was impossible is now a very real reality!"
- Annie
"No more poor me"
"Patti has made such a difference. I just feel so much more positive, and not so stuck in a "poor me" syndrome. And that's what I'm celebrating."
- Barb
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