About Us

I’m Patti Hoying and I created this little corner of the Internet to help women rebound faster after divorce and life disruption, helping them step into the good stuff of an amazing life by design.

Our programs, including the Divorce Operating System (Divorce OS), are designed to help professionals, rising leaders and entrepreneurs quickly restore balance after divorce, loss and breakup, so they can rebound faster and build an even more amazing life. Our process supports them to protect what they've earned, get clear on their purpose, and make their soul smile… without wasting time on fluffy advice and tactics that just don't work.

The Right Fit

Our exclusive Divorce OS program provides clients with the method, mindset and mentorship to up-level their soul, helping them perform at – and become – their very best as they enter this next phase of their life journey.

We are selective in who we work with. Most are high-achieving professionals. Some are women business owners or entrepreneurs. A handful are ambitious non-working individuals, women who sacrificed their career to support their husband's success and now find themselves feeling a bit behind. All are committed to getting a plan in place to move forward faster.

We will only work with people who are willing to invest in themselves and their personal growth… who are willing to take personal responsibility for their life, success, and circumstances… who are willing to show up and do the work with consistency… who are ready for change to create better outcomes. Does that sound like you? If so, let's have a conversation

My Big Why

Life during and after divorce is hard. It is my mission to guide powerful women on how to best navigate the disruption with grade and confidence, and to minimize collateral damage to careers and families.

When I first began as a coach and mentor for other professional women, I noticed a trend. Many were seeking support professionally because of the challenges they were facing personally. To serve at the highest level, I searched everywhere for the most efficient and effective solution to support their needs -- which I would eventually use to support my own journey when my marriage of 22 years ended. Juggling kids, a big job as vice president at a global company, volunteer work, parent care and more -- I didn't have time to deal with divorce. All I wanted was a system to get through it quickly, with grace and confidence, and to minimize the collateral damage on those I love. And because nothing at that time existed for someone like me, I developed my own, the original Divorce Operating System. Many years later, I can can tell you that it really works when you apply the principals. When you're ready, allow me to help you rediscover what makes your heart happy so you, too, can create an even more incredible and peaceful life than ever before. It's possible once you learn how.

Success

My life has changed forever...

"Working with Patti has changed my life and my relationships. I’m forever grateful."

Life is finally back on track...

"After working with Patti, I feel like my life is finally on track. What I thought was impossible is now a very real reality!"

No more poor me...

"Patti has made such a difference. I just feel so much more positive, and not so stuck in a "poor me" syndrome. And that's what I'm celebrating."

Terry

Annie

Barb

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I am making a difference in the world by helping women heal faster after divorce so they can uplevel their situation and build their BEST LIFE, without compromising Self, Health, Wealth, Family, their Integrity or their Future.

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